Stolen

As usual, on Sunday morning, i will go exercise with my mother in law at Kiara park.  Usually i will go round try to look for a nearer parking spot near the park.  Then my MIL will be nagging at me, say i so lazy, ask me just park anywhere.  Come exercise somemore want park near…. bla bla bla…

To avoid listening to her nagging,  i decided just park in when i saw a parking lot nearby the mosque and the school.  So it was quite far from the park and less car passing by that area.

When we are going back, i feel something is not right in my heart.  Why is the car so far away, i still cannot see my car.  So i ask my mother in law, where is the car, she say it was further down, finally i saw the car.  But when i try to use the key to unlock the car, the key just seem cannot enter the key hole.  Some bad feeling coming up, did someone break in the car? True enough, i quickly went to the passenger side and open the door, check in the glove compartment.  Both our coin purse were gone.  So i was checking all over the drain around and on the road.  Thinking that damn, all my I/C and license were gone… and my credit card, ATM card…. I got to cancel all my card immediately and need to go to the police station to make report.  I have a movie to catch later… how am i going to settle all in time?

When i turn around, i saw the two wallet is place under the car wiper, i was so excited.  I quickly take and check it.  All my money were gone but everything else were still in… luckily the thieve did not take my I/C and license n the credit card and ATM card. Thank god for that.  Anyway, i lost around RM200 in total.

And it teach me a very good lesson.  To me it is a bit expensive because this month i already quite broke still lost RM200.  With that money i can buy so many things already.  Really heartache but just can’t do anything with it.  Just pray to god that it did not happen when i was there and it might be even more scary if we were to be at the scene when the thieve trying to rob us?

I just got a call from my mum, my sis in law just been rob in Sg. long, her car, hand bag and handphone all gone… OMG, what kind of world is this?  The robber even chopped her with parang.  She get many stitches and her shirt is covered with blood.  So scary, her daughter is in the car with her, luckily she manage to pull her out before the robber drove her car away.

Another “peace” of my thought today

Today my office is so quiet. 80% of the staffs all went for company trip at Pulau Pangkor. Early morning I have to walk up n down the stairs to open the warehouse, another office block. Make me sweating like hell.

I am so sleepy today…no mood to work.

Today is also my dad’s pass away 3rd 7 days. I did not go pray because today is more important for the son. For the 5th 7 days then is for daughter to buy all the praying food. Then follow by 7th 7 days which is 49 days. On that day we all need to go to Nilai memorial park to pray and put up the ancestor place.

This few weekends mum been going to the Guan yin temple to pray for my dad. Guan yin told her that my dad been coming back everyday to see her. He also asks her to take care of herself and eat well. Yesterday I go visit mum and she is not well. After living for so long, I seldom see her fall sick, I feel very heartache. May be she just missed dad, but she just don’t show us. But she is more prepared than anyone of us when my dad collapsed.

It was 9:45am, I received mum’s phone call. I am still blurred even though already started work for 1 hr. She say if can please come by immediately, dad is not breathing anymore. She called every one of us so calmly. The moment I heard the news, I was stunned and my brain gone blank. I don’t know what I need to do. It just gone blanked. After few minutes, I call HR and informed that I need to take emergency leave and informed hubby as well. After that I went to tell my HOD as well. I was running up n down because I forget certain thing. It happened so sudden and I am totally not prepared n still in shocked.

When I was driving to my mum’s house, I don’t know which way to take. End up I take my usual way to go home and detour to mum’s house. On the way there, I feel short of breathe and my tears just keeps falling down. After a while I start saying prayer to calm myself down. I so scared I will met an accident at that time because I just can’t really concentrate with what I am doing at that time.

After reach mum’s house, hubby is outside greeting me. When I went in the house, my sis, bro in law, sis in law is massaging dad. After awhile, 2nd brother arrived and also Dr. Low. He help to do some CPR and he advise us to sent dad to hospital. Hubby called the ambulance, they are asking so many questions and taking so long to come, we end up cancel it and sent dad by bro in law’s van to HUKM. We were waiting outside the emergency room so anxiously. And they take so long to come out to tell us that they have tried their best but can’t help. Ask us to go inside and see dad for the last time.

Me n eldest sis is waited outside the bilik mayat until 3:30pm. While 2nd sis and brother is going to Xiao en center. When the xiao en center people come only managed to bring dad to xiao en center. After that only I and hubby went home to take a shower n change clothes and we rush out again to avoid the jam.

After cremation on Thursday, everything only settle on Friday when we bring the ashes to put in the Nilai Memorial park.

Dad – Rest in peace and we will miss you……………

just…….

It’s been awhile I did not write blog already. Been busy looking for job, went for interview, and finally found a new job. And now busy with the full long day job. Now I had been working for 3 months plus already, times really flies.

People say economy is not good, but my company is hiring everyday. Jobstreets.com is full of vacancy posted on it. Why is it says economy no good? Every weekend when I go to 1 Utama, I still see people buying all the branded goods, not one bag, but many bags. Expensive restaurants still full house. With the H1N1 disease going around, people still go out shopping, go cinema watch Transformers, is it really that bad?

H1N1 already goes to 6 degree, is quite bad, but dun seems people scared of it. Still go to oversea and crowded places. Also the haze… this morning, the moment I step out my car when I reach office… I can smell the burning smell, is very bad at this area….

When will all these H1N1, Haze over? I wanted to go holiday man… because of these I have to on hold my plan, don’t want to take the chance.

新年到

新年到了,你快乐吗？我的新年过得一年不如一年。朋友也好像越来越少,吉隆坡的新年好冷清,一点气氛也没有。以前还忙得寄贺年卡,现在科技发达,大家都以发短讯及电邮来向亲朋戚友道贺.

新年好像是小孩子快乐的节日，我们大人只是忙着办年货，打扫，而且还要大出血的一个节日，因为要派红包嘛！今年的新年比往年还要静。年初一一早起身，要去拜年也没地方好去，结果一家大小去了shopping，无聊吧！因为我家人都去了马六甲的表姐家吃风去了.年初二就去麻坡拜年,因为老公今天要上班,所以要赶着回家,回家时一路塞车,大家都好累,儿子也因为一整天都没睡午觉,太累了,在车上大发脾气.我的胃也饿到抽筋了,好不容易终于挨到到家已是9:30pm了.赶快填饱肚子后,又忙着洗头冲凉,然后倒头就蒙头大睡了.

挨了那么多天,今天终于收到朋友的短讯,说明天要来拜年.好开心哦!

新年快乐!万事如意!恭喜发财!废话,年年都是这几句,你不厌我都厌啦!要发早就发啦,还等到这一天还是那么穷吗?不过老土还是每年都要讲啦,不然就不是新年咯!哈哈!!!!!!

长大了。。。。

儿子长大了， 成熟了。。。。 前阵子，我每天看他躺着的床好像小了，其实那也是他出世时一直使用到现在的婴儿床，拆开左右两边床架，就变成他现在的所谓的床了。我提议老公帮他换掉着婴儿床，但因我现在失业，暂时搁置了，我们就只好在Ikea买了个护架，放在一边，防止它不小心滚下床。那东西用了不到半年，前几天他不知发什么少爷脾气，把它踢了下来。从那天起，我们也没帮他装回上去，虽然有点担心他半夜会滚下床，可是快一个星期了，so far so good. 老公就对我说，儿子才不到三岁已可以睡普通床了，不再用护架了。

他也开始上幼儿园了。明天就满三个星期了。他第一天上学，我比他还紧张，甚至还失眠呢。第二天，我家婆竟然丢下我一个人面对送儿子上学的压力， 真没义气。儿子拉着我的手提袋，不肯放手，我的车又挡着邻居的大门，必须去移车，当时的心情真是不知如何形容是好，走有不是，不走又不能，心里酸溜溜的，我的眼泪也跟着不受控制的直流不停。结果在逼不得已的情况下把他塞给了一个老师，一走了之。把车停在对面后，偷偷在大门前偷看他，心痛得不得了，看他哭得好凄凉，真想冲进去抱着他，但我知道如果我一进去，一切的努力都要白费了。就在那儿也认识了另外一个妈妈，他儿子今年5岁了，也是哭得半条命似的，她也心痛得半命，结果我俩在那晒着太阳，汗流浃背的在墙外偷偷的望着在里头哭得好凄凉的两个小孩。哭了三天，第四天好多了，只是流了一点点泪，安心多了。第二个星期还会对我说不要去学校，这星期起都没再说什么，开开心心上学去咯。希望放完就天年假后，他不会又要我再从来吧，不过那时我可能要上班了，只好让家婆自己去面对咯。

好心没有好报

真没想到世界上竟然会有这样的人。好心让他知道他正在吃亏，他却返回来反咬你一口，真是好心没有好报！ 以后要做好人的话真的要想好多次。害我们无端端被人骂了一顿！真冤枉！但却有冤无处伸。。。。 唉。。。。。。。。

媳婦永遠都是別人家的小孩

这是一个朋友寄给我的电邮，不知道是否说中大部分媳妇们的心声呢？让我和大家一起分享以下的故事吧！也让各位男士们看看，多体会一下太太的感受。。。。。。。。

媳婦永遠都是別人家的小孩，男女都要看..很讚！

講的真好呀……

我是楊 小姐，與吳先生結婚後，

他還是叫吳先生，可是我就變成了吳 太太。

稱謂上的轉換倒無所謂，令我難受的是實質的生活際遇：

吳家的大小事就是我的事，而我娘家的事可就不關他的事。

婆婆與媽媽都有慢性病，常常身子不舒適，

結婚三年以來，即使我有事忙，

或是自己也生病時，都得忍著不適帶婆婆就醫，

期間看了中西醫無數次，而她的態度總是像皇太后般頤指氣使。

反觀幾天前，跟老公提及媽媽跌傷了腿，之後他壓根忘了這件事，

連續幾天我自己帶媽媽就醫，電話追蹤復元狀況。

再提及此事時，老公只說了句：

「噢，那妳替我問候她！」更好笑的是，我媽媽因此就稱讚女婿有心。

我們星期日的午餐例行是與婆家共進，而晚餐則與娘家共聚。

然而，到婆家吃午飯，

我與印傭須提早一個小時抵達，好幫忙婆婆做飯，

每次一進門，婆婆總是逕將手中的蔬菜遞給我揀，

看不出有一點孩子們回家團聚的喜悅，

只在意我是不是晚了幾分鐘去，是不是少幫她炒了一道菜。

反觀在娘家的晚餐實況：

通常媽媽要我們六點鐘到，當我們在六點時進家門，

飯菜早已香氣四溢，媽媽總是熱情地招呼丈夫；

菜色、水果及零食皆針對每個人的喜好而預備。

飯後我們幫忙收拾，媽媽還趕我們去看電視，

頻說：「難得回來，放著就好。」

每次看見婆婆對我及媽媽對待女婿之間如此大的差異，

而老公卻覺得那是理所當然時，我就懷疑女人為什麼要結婚？

如果媳婦也能以一句「替我問候你媽媽！」來表達對婆婆的孝心，

也許我們的日子就會好過多了，老公，可以嗎？

結論就是對婆婆而言,媳婦永遠都是別人家的小孩啦！

姐妹們，

請狂寄給眾男子讓他們可以設身處地的發揮他們的‘豬心‘替老婆想想吧!

怎样？姐妹们，有没说中你们的心声呢？男士们，这些事情是否正在上演着？如果是的话，应该是时候检讨咯！

叙旧

今天和好久没见的朋友吃午餐。 自从她结婚后就没见过面了。 转眼间， 应该也快一年了吧。

时间过得真快，大学毕业后,各有个忙事业,家庭…… 很少有机会坐下来闲聊,今天也是趁着她午休的那短短一个小时,三人一起谈谈最近的生活点点滴滴. 很快的她又得回去上班了，不知道下一次见面又会是何时呢？

好怀念读书时期的一切,虽然必须面对考试的压力,但还算过着无忧无愁的生活，不愁吃，不愁穿。现在可不同了，忙着赚钱，每每总是钱不够用，不管怎么省吃俭用，到了月底口袋和户口所剩的也没多少。每每辛辛苦苦储了一点点，一定有些东西需要买，或有些事情发生，必须动用到这笔钱。听说钱不够用第二集已上映，这出戏演得好真实，也很滑稽，简直是现代人的生活写照，一点也没错。一定要下载来看，不能错过。

Nokia E66

我想要把现在的E65换掉, 换成E66,为什么呢…..就为了新款式的前面有camera, video call 会比较方便咯. 还可以按装GPS软件,还有好多好多function. 外形也比现在这架class. 但是要trade in 的话才值RM700, 新机要整RM1700. 还是忍一下. 等价钱再跌多些吧.

况且E65是我去年的生日礼物,还是用多两下啦.

RM 5

I really dunno what is wrong with me recently, very forgetful, blur ……

The other day boss ask me to issue cheque for salary.  Was very confident that day is 28 August. Padahal is only 27 August.  So after work immediately i go to bank in the cheque, so i had bank in postdated cheque lor. When i find out the mistake is already 2 days later.  The bank also never call to inform me about that. And i try to call the branch I bank in the cheque, after so many try at last someone pick up.  So i told her that i had bank in a postdated cheque.  You know what she say, she ask me — Kenapa awak bank in postdated cheque?  At that moment i really feel like slap her on the face if she was in front of me.  If i know that is postdated cheque, i wouldn’t bank it in already lar.  Why she have to ask this kind of stupid questions?  Then i ask her now i need to collect the cheque at your branch or wut, she say it will be courier to my address which i given to the bank.  So i ask her when i will receive it? She answer — I tak tau lar, ini semua handle by head office.  After that I ask her, can she check for me the tracking number of the courier so i can check with the courier company when i can receive the cheque back. She answer — Tak tau lar, ini semua handle by head office, kita sini tak boleh buat apa-apa.  After hearing this, i tell her thank you and put down the phone.  In my heart, i going to close all the account from this bank and open in a more reputable bank like HSBC/CTB.  Their customer service will definitely be better than this local bank eventhough they have so many branch all over Malaysia and supported strongly by the government. I bank in two cheque on that day, so both returned and being charge RM 5 each.

Yesterday I remembered my CTB not yet pay and it should be due already.  So quickly I check my statement.  I was due on the 10/Sept.  Again RM 5 for late payment charge. My god.  It is like a curse to me. Why so many RM 5 charge to me this mth. Should I buy 4D? May be will strike 1st price? Haha….